Sunday, July 28, 2013

Making the Most of Life

“What is life? For you are a midst that appears for a little time and then vanishes.” James 4:14.
The word around us is a constant reminder of the brevity of life. The psalmist in Psalms 90:12 says “Teach us to number our days aright that we may gain a heart of wisdom” Even if you have never heard this verse, you already know it’s implications: our time here on Earth is limited. A recent unexpected death in my family really got me thinking about this: No one really knows how many more days we will be alive. As we plan for each day ahead of us, we always assume that we will have many more days to come, but we can never really be certain of this.  “Come now, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go such and such a town and spend a year their and trade and make a profit.’ Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What Is life? For you are a midst that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills we will live to do this or that.’ James 4:13-15.
As I pondered on the brevity of life this week, some questions came to my mind. I will pose these questions to you, and I encourage you to ponder on the answers.
If you knew that you only had two weeks to live how would you live your life differently? Would you spend less time worrying about money or bills or this or that? Would you spend a little less time in the office and more time with your family? How about of those times you were too busy for those you love? Would you spend more time with your loved ones? Would you offer your forgiveness to someone that you have been holding a grudge against? Would you ask someone who you hurt to forgive you? Would you tell the people you care about how much they mean to you? Would you make amends for the things you have done wrong? Would you spend less time being stressed out about things that are trivial? Would you get right with the Lord and ask him to forgive your sins? Would you be certain that you would be going to heaven? If you knew that you only had two weeks to live what would you spend you last days on Earth doing?
The truth is we do not really know if we have more than two weeks here on Earth. We do not even know if we have one more day. I urge you to ponder on these questions. Do not wait until tomorrow to do those things that you feel you need to do. Forgive that person who hurt you today. Make amends today. Tell that person you love them today. Spend time with the people you care about today.
When you were reading my questions did you answer that you did were not certain if you would be going to heaven? Did you answer that you wanted to get right with the Lord and ask him to forgive your sins? If you did I urge you to pray the following prayer.
“For we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23.
“For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 6:23
The bible says that we are all sinners and have fallen short of the glory of God. The penalty of sin was death, but Jesus came to take that penalty so that we would live eternal life and have a relationship with God.
“For if you confess with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead,  will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.” Romans 10:9-10
Prayer of Salvation
Jesus, I understand that you are the son of God, and that you died on the cross to pay the penalty for my sins.
Please come into my life, forgive my sins, and make me a member of your family. I now turn away from going my own way. I want you to be the center of my life. Thank you for the gift of eternal life and for the Holy Spirit that has now come to live in me.


If you prayed that prayer today in your heart, you are a child of God. You are forgiven, and will spend eternity with God in heaven. 

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Dealing With Worry


For the majority of my life I have struggled with worry and anxiety. If there is nothing to worry about I think I sometimes find something to worry about. This is something I believe God has been helping me with lately;  in the past month I have not felt extremely overwhelmed or anxious about anything. This is not to say that I do not have anything to worry about. ( I have plenty to worry about). But I am beginning to worry less and put things in God’s hands. I have been struggling with chronic stomach pains, but once the worrying slowed down, my stomach problems slowed down as well.

Reducing your worry and anxiety can have many benefits to your health, mood, and your state of mind. What are some ways to reduce worry and anxiety? Here are some that have worked for me.

Bring everything to prayer.” Be not anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving and petition, with thanksgiving, present your request to God. And the peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard your heart and your mind in Jesus Christ.” Philippians 4:6-7. Feeling worried about something? Bring it to God in prayer. It is impossible to be worried and pray at the same time.

Meditate on scripture.  These are a few you can meditate on. “When I am afraid I will trust in you.” Psalm 56:3 “Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will not let the righteous fall.” Psalm 55:2. “Now may the Lord himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all.” 2 Thessalonians 3:16.

Create a prayer Box: Decorate a box. The box can be anything from an old shoe box to a cigar box. You can decorate the box with sayings or images that will remind you not to worry. Every time you feel worried about something write down what you are worried about. Put it in the box as a symbol that you are giving this care or concern to God and you will not worry about it anymore.

Write in a prayer Journal: Write your prayers in a journal. Then you can go back and look through it and see that most of the things you worried about never came to pass.

Take care of yourself.  Exercise and get plenty of rest. If you take care of yourself you will be able to handle stress better.

Practice Relaxation Breathing Techniques. One way to do this is to breathe slowly in through your nose then out through your mouth. Repeat this for several minutes.